● If you could choose anyone in the world, living or dead, to have in our home as a dinner
guest, who would you choose and why?
● If you could choose the activities to do that would make a perfect day, what would you
choose?
● If you had a crystal ball that could tell you anything at all about your life that you don’t
already know, what would you ask it to tell you?
● What’s your favorite childhood memory?
● What are the ten most important things on your personal bucket list?
● When did you last cry about something and what did you cry about?
● If you could wake up tomorrow morning with one new skill or ability, what would you
choose?
● What do you like best about our relationship?
● What’s something that you’d like to try, but that you’re too scared to try?
● If all of your friends were asked to describe you, which friend’s description would be the
most accurate and why?
● What was your favorite book (or movie) as a child and why did you like it so much?
● What’s the one thing about yourself that you would most like to change?
● What would be your dream vacation?
● What are three qualities you admire about yourself?
● What are three qualities you admire about me?
● What’s one of your best memories from when we were dating?
● What was your favorite place to go as a child and why did you love it there?
● If you could be any character in a book (or movie), who would you choose to be?
● If all of a sudden you knew that you had 6 weeks left to live, what would you want to do
in the time you had left?
● What three things in your life could you not imagine doing without?
● Let’s say that our house is on fire, but you know that our family members and pets are
safe. What things would you want to rescue from the fire and why?
● If someone gave you enough money to start a business—no strings attached—what kind
of business would you want to start?
● What are the five things that you are most thankful for right now?
● If you could possess one artistic talent (painting, sculpture, composing music, writing,
etc.), which talent would you choose and why?
● If you could be an Olympic or professional athlete, what sport would you choose and
why?
● Do you see yourself in our kid(s)? If so, how?
● When you were a kid, did you think about having kids yourself one day? If so, how many
and what did you imagine doing with them?
● What’s one of the most adventurous things you have ever done?
● If you could have been an eyewitness to any event in history, which one would you
choose?
● What do you dream about the most often?
● Which of your parents do you think you’re most like and why?
● What was the first thing about me that attracted you?
● What do you like most about your appearance?
● Over the last five years, how do you think you have changed?
● If you could take a year-long paid sabbatical, what would you do?
● If you had to guess right now, what do you think our kid(s) would choose as a career
someday and why?
● When you think about the future, what do you imagine?
● When you listen to music, do you focus on the words or the music?
● Do you learn new skills or information best by hearing, seeing, or doing?
● If you could plan the perfect date with me, what would that include?