In this edition of Love Matters, we further our discussion on Habits that Destroy Intimacy. We wrap up this topic by looking at the final two habits: independent behavior and annoying patterns.

These love destroyers can create conflict in our relationships and can have a positive or negative effect on you and your spouse. ‘…you can look at it like a love bank. So you either deposit or you withdraw love units from the love bank. With every decision you make, there has to be consciousness – that it’s not just about you anymore.”

In this conversation, we further the conversation on how certain habits, independent behavior needs to be mitigated by interdependent behavior; taking joint agreement on things and taking a mutual interest into things.

Mental Health Professional and Consciousness Couch, Sameer Charles, and Relationship Counsellor and Couples Coach and Researcher, Sumaya Hoosain joins us for today’s segment of Love Matters.